1.8 Family life
My pregnancy passed quickly and I tried to keep myself busy. I spent time in my garden whenever I got the chance but often my back was too bad from all the bending and lifting.
I was home alone when I went into labour, so I called Blake and he said he was on his way.
He arrived home just as I gave birth. Our baby daughter was born healthy and happy and Blake and I were thrilled. We decided to name her Raiza.
Raiza was a perfect mixture of Blake and me. She had my eyes and her dads dark red hair. She loved being outside but seemed a little crazy at times.
Blake sometimes worked late into the night doing god knows what. He also came home smelling terrible sometimes, as if he had been rooting around in garbage.
I loved spending time with Raiza and was determined to be the best mother I could be. I immediately set to work trying to teach her all the necessary skills for life.
She loved her father, and he was brilliant with her. He loved helping around the house and spending time with her.
A few days later it was my birthday, I didn’t have time to make a fuss of it so I just carried on as normal. As I was outside pegging some washing on the line disaster struck. Our washing machine broke and our cooker caught fire at the same time.
I saw the smoke billowing out of the windows and panicked, Raiza was inside! I ran into the house “Blake, quick! The cooker’s on fire!” I screamed.. Blake grabbed the fire extinguisher and rushed over. Sadly he didn’t have much experience with putting out fires and managed to spray it at himself instead of the fire.
I called the fire brigade and they said they’d be there as soon as possible. He ran in and quickly extinguished the flames, but sadly we weren’t able to save our cooker or surrounding area.
As I cleaned up the mess that lingered from the fire, Blake set to work teaching Raiza how to talk.
Finally, the day arrived when I returned to work. I was excited as I had missed talking with the spirits and it was also good to get out of the house for a bit. But I was really going to miss spending time with my little girl. I just really hoped I didn’t miss too much. One thing I did not enjoy was the way people reacted to having spirits in their home. Did they not understand that freaking out didn’t actually help, and normally only made things worse?
Blake had been promoted and had been given some special items to go with his new post. Firstly he was given a large notice board to analyse his case notes on. He would spend hours staring at it trying to piece small clues together.
He had also been given a special door which he insisted on installing outside his office, he was very proud. Little did we know that his promotion would be coming in handy very soon.
I had started being sick a few days before, it had a familiar feeling to it. I was pregnant again! I had no idea how we were going to afford another baby, now I just had to break the news to Blake. Once again he was thrilled and he immediately began fussing around me.
Blake began taking fewer cases as he said that he wanted to be around more to help with Raiza and the pregnancy.
I just tried to concentrate on spending as much time as I could with her as I knew that when the new baby came along my time would be spread much thinner. She was such a happy little girl, and loved nothing more than sitting and reading a book.
I couldn’t understand it, I seemed so much bigger this time than with Raiza, I was huge!
I went into labour a month early. Blake was home this time although he wasn’t really any help. He had no idea what to do, and just stood there panicking while I screamed and pushed. When the labour was over we both had a surprise in store for us…